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Comfort Positions

Comfort positions help children feel more in control of their medical experience, and reduce their anxiety.

Using positions of comfort also gives your child choices, creating a more positive experience, a routine for future stressful events, and ultimately a greater sense of achievement.

Comfort positioning benefits parents too, increasing bonding, confidence, and a sense of being able to help your child through the many different procedures.

A mother supports her daughter using the back to chest comfort position.

Reducing Anxiety

Your child will face many events throughout diagnosis, treatment and remission that may make him feel upset, anxious or stressed. These may range from benign – a nurse checking an ID armband, to painful – having a lumbar puncture.

Repeated visits to the hospital can cause seemingly routine events to become stressful and destroy your child’s sense of control. He may become aggressive, and struggle during these events, and may need help to stay still.

When children are uncooperative, more staff are needed to complete the procedure. This can be overwhelming for an already upset child. Comfort positions decrease the need for extra people.

Some children need to see each step of the medical procedure. Others need to look away, or participate in distraction activities. Comfort positions can be used in conjunction with distraction activities where appropriate.

Below are four primary comfort positions that can be used to support children through many different procedures, and five additional positions that can be particularly helpful for the administration of eye-drops in very young children.

Four Primary Positions for Comfort

The following four comfort positions cam be helpful during a stressful event. All are intended to be between the child and parent or caregiver.

1. On The Bed

A man sits on a chair, supporting a child-sized puppet who sits on a bed during a medical procedure.

The child sits on the bed or examination table with the parent positioned behind him, providing comfort and stability.

  • Allows the child to feel more in control.
  • Allows the child to participate in a distraction activity
  • Lets the child choose to see what is happening or look away.
  • Works best for a child who needs only a little help staying still

2. Back to Chest

A man holds a child-sized puppet on his lap during a medical procedure.

The child sits with his back to the parent’s chest. The parent can secure one arm with a hug, while the other arm is free. The child’s legs can also be secured by holding them at the ankles between the parent’s legs.

  • Allows the child to feel more in control.
  • Allows the child to participate in a distraction activity
  • Lets the child choose to see what is happening or look away.

3. Chest to Chest

A man hugs a child-sized puppet, talking calmly while supporting its head to face away from the medical procedure taking place.

The child sits chest to chest with the parent, his legs off to each side. His legs can only kick from the knee down and one arm is secure. The parent can give the child a warm, nurturing hug throughout the procedure.

  • Allows the child to participate in a distraction activity
  • Lets the child choose to see what is happening or look away.

4. Legs to the Side

A child-sized puppet sits on a man’s lap with legs to the side as they both watch the medical procedure taking place.

The child sits on the parent’s lap with his legs off to one side. The parent holds the child’s hand throughout the procedure. The child’s legs can be secured by shifting him to the parent’s back leg, securing both legs between the parent’s legs.

  • Allows the child to feel more in control.
  • Allows the child to participate in a distraction activity
  • Lets the child choose to see what is happening or look away.
  • Works best for a child who needs only a little help staying still

More Comfort Positions for Giving Eye Drops

Cradled – Baby

A woman applies pretend drops to a demonstration infant doll laying in her lap and cradled in her arm. Her left arm is wrapped comfortingly around the baby and she holds both arms in place across the chest while applying the drops with her right hand.

The baby is held securely in place by the parent’s comforting arm, while the free hand is used to apply the drops.

Cradled – Older Child

A woman applies pretend drops to a child-sized medical play puppet laying in her lap, cradled in her arm. The child is secured by the woman’s left arm, wrapped comfortingly around the shoulders. Her hand rests over the child’s arms, which lie on the chest, crossed at the wrists. She applies the drops with her right hand.

The child’s hands are crossed on the chest and can be restrained by the parent’s comforting arm, if needed.

Baby on Lap

A woman applies pretend drops to a demonstration infant doll laying in her lap, head resting on her knees, legs leaning on her torso.

Applying drops can be difficult in a young baby who is facing away from you.  The baby is more secure on your lap in this position, and you can also easily do infant massage to calm your baby before applying eye drops.  If you worry your baby may kick, you can place a cushion between yourself and your baby’s feet.

Stroller 1

A woman applies pretend drops to a child-sized medical play puppet sitting in a stroller. The child’s hands are relaxed down by the side. The head is fully supported by the stroller, and the woman has both hands free to apply the drops, if needed.

This position is good for children who are more confident with eye drops. The child needs no restraint and is fully supported by the stroller.  The parent has both hands free to apply the eye drops, if needed.  Never approach a child from behind without warning or preparation to apply eye drops.

Stroller 2

A woman applies pretend drops to a child-sized medical play puppet sitting in a stroller. The child’s arms are crossed over the chest and gently restrained by the woman’s left hand. She reaches over the child’s shoulder from behind to place her left hand flat on the child’s arms, while applying the drops with her right hand.

This adaptation of the Stroller 1 position supports children who need a little reassurance to master their confidence with eye-drops. Both hands can be gently but firmly restrained on the child’s chest. Never approach a child from behind without warning or preparation to apply eye drops.

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