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Treatment Decision Making Guide


Introduction

Parents face many decisions about their child’s medical care for retinoblastoma.  This comprehensive guide to making treatment decisions will help you navigate the process, from before diagnosis, and throughout your child’s eye cancer journey.

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Many Treatment Decisions…

Making decisions about your child’s retinoblastoma treatment can be complex, highly emotive, and stressful.  You may be reeling from news of the diagnosis or relapse, and very anxious about your child’s wellbeing.

You will likely be given a lot of detailed information in a very short space of time, and you will need to make major decisions about your child’s care quickly.

Treatment decisions may include:

  • Identifying the best treatment facility and retinoblastoma team.
  • Choosing between two or more treatments.
  • When cancer is advanced and/or the eye is blind, deciding whether to remove your child’s eye (enucleation) to protect their life and wellbeing.
  • When cure is unlikely, deciding whether to begin or continue intensive treatments, or prioritise quality time, comfort and wellbeing.

Impact of Treatment Decisions

The decisions you make will influence everything from overall wellbeing of your child and family to the quality and cost of care, and the potential for cure.  Taking time to make the best possible decision is vital.

Parents who make treatment decisions jointly with their medical team are more satisfied with the medical experience and outcome, and less likely to feel regret.

Research shows that:

  • 92% of parents wanted to know how their child’s cancer and its treatment may impact their future life, even when that information was very distressing.
  • Parents who found information upsetting were more likely to consider it important, and to want detailed understanding of their child’s risks.
  • 1 in 6 parents regretted their treatment decisions. But parents were less likely to regret their choices when they felt they were given high-quality information about the diagnosis, treatment and long-term implications, when they trusted the oncologist completely, and when they held their preferred role in decision making.
  • 64% of parents wanted to share decision making with the oncologist.
  • Oncologists failed to recognize a parent’s preferences 51% of the time.
  • 1 in 3 parents had a level of decision making that differed from what theywanted 14% were more involved than they wanted, and 20% were less involved than they wanted.
  • The 14% of parents who had a more active role than they wanted were more likely to regret their treatment decisions.

Key Considerations

Parents must consider a range of factors to make confident treatment decisions, and reduce the risk of decisional regret.  These include:

  • Your thoughts and feelings.
  • Your decision making process.
  • Knowledge and understanding of retinoblastoma.
  • Detailed evaluation of benefits, risks, and side effects for all treatment options.
  • Awareness of how your child can be supported to cope with each option.
  • Knowledge and understanding of how your child’s future may be affected.
  • The emotional, practical, and financial cost of each option.
  • Personal preferences, beliefs, values, and goals.
  • Disagreements and conflict.

We recommend you do all you can to actively engage with your child’s medical team through every decision.  Addressing all considerations can help you make the best treatment decisions to protect and save your child’s life, preserve their wellbeing, and possibly save eye and sight – if safe to do so.

Your Step-By-Step Guide to Confidentt Decisions

This comprehensive guide will help you:

  • Identify, gather, and evaluate all the information you need.
  • Navigate conversations with your medical team, family and friends.
  • Make confident decisions that support your child’s complete wellbeing throughout treatment and beyond.

This guide contains a lot of detailed information, and we understand that the thought of going through 12 steps can feel daunting, especially during such an emotionally charged time.  However, each step is designed to provide clear, manageable, and supportive guidance alongside the medical information you are receiving, to ensure you make the best decisions for your child’s health and wellbeing.

You don’t have to tackle everything at once.  Approach each step as a small, achievable goal.  By breaking down the process, we aim to make it more manageable and less overwhelming.  The guide is structured to help you build your knowledge and confidence gradually, one step at a time, while supporting you to make timely decisions for your child and family.

Take a deep breath – you can do this! Here’s a quick snapshot of what to expect from each step:

  1. Acknowledge your thoughts and feelings: Recognize your emotions and understand their impact on your decision-making.
  2. Understand your decision-making style: Learn about your natural approach to making decisions and how to best use it.
  3. Find your expert team: Identify and connect with the right medical professionals for your child.
  4. Understand shared decision making and informed consent: Know your rights and responsibilities in the treatment process.
  5. Set an intention to make balanced decisions: Focus on making well-rounded decisions that prioritize your child’s overall wellbeing.
  6. Learn about retinoblastoma: Gain a solid understanding of the disease and its treatment options.
  7. Evaluate your options: Carefully consider all available treatments.
  8. Consider your values and goals: Align your decisions with your family’s values and long-term goals.
  9. Manage disagreement and conflict: Navigate and resolve any conflicts that arise during the decision-making process.
  10. Make your decision: Choose the best treatment option for your child.
  11. Review your decision: Reassess your choice with the medical team to ensure it’s the best path forward.
  12. Support your child – and yourself: Establish and maintain emotional and practical support for your family throughout the journey.

This guide will empower you to navigate through this very difficult time with more ease.  Each step has a specific purpose, helping you make holistic, informed decisions for your child’s complete wellbeing – now and throughout their life.  By taking it one step at a time, you can feel more in control, calm, and confident in your choices and plans.

Always put your child’s needs first, always ask questions, and always make your decisions in full discussion with experienced retinoblastoma specialists who know your child’s specific case history and your family.

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